IS YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING?

Is Your Husband Cheating? 5 Signs He’s Having an Affair

Learn if your husband is cheating; these five signs of an affair include four ways to know if he’s lying about cheating. These tips are from Gary Neuman, author of The Truth About Cheating.
Neuman discussed why men cheat and how to know if your husband is cheating on the Dr Oz show.
“More than 50% of all men have cheated in a love relationship,” says Dr Oz. “Trying to rebuild trust after an affair seems impossible.” In his audience that day, 30% of women think they’ve been cheated on…but not everyone knows for sure.
I’m so glad I watched the Dr Oz show today – his marriage tips were really good. Plus, Janine Driver of the Body Language Institute shared four ways to know if your husband is lying about cheating.
Gary Neuman is the author of The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It.
According to him, you can prevent your husband from cheating – and you can discern when he’s lying about cheating.

Why Husbands Cheat

According to Neuman, men cheat for several reasons:

Monogamy not part of a man’s nature. Biology makes men want to have as many kids as possible, so they cheat with as many female partners as possible.
Power, opportunity, money increases testosterone. The more testosterone a man has, the more likely he is to cheat.
Specific genes makes men men more likely to cheat. Scientists are studying a “cheating gene”, which involves decreased levels of vasopressin.
Husbands aren’t appreciated at home, so they cheat.
Men aren’t able to emotionally connect with their wives or partners, so they cheat.

How Do You Know If Your Husband Will Cheat on You?

M. Gary Neuman has been a marriage therapist for 23 years. He wrote The Truth about Cheating because he wanted to empower women by showing them how men think – which includes why husbands cheat on their wives.
This relationship counselor says 92% of men who cheat are sexually satisfied at home. Only 8% of men cheat because they want more physical intimacy. A whopping 48% say they’re missing an emotional connection at home, so they cheat on their wives.
The women men cheat with are not better looking, younger, or skinnier than their wives. In fact, 88% of men say their affairs are with women who aren’t more beautiful than their wives.

Surprisingly, 77% of husbands who cheated had best friends who also cheated on their wives. This means that your husband’s friends have a very real, direct effect on your marriage. If your husband’s best friend is cheating, then the chances are higher that your husband may cheat on you.

5 Signs He’s Having an Affair

He’s not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before
He avoids physical and emotional contact
He criticizes you more often
He picks fights or starts arguments with you
He stays away from home

According to Gary Neuman, a woman’s gut is the most important indicator that a man is cheating.
Neuman also said that lying is worse than the actual cheating. Husbands try to convince their wives that she’s crazy for thinking he’d have an emotional or physical affair – which is so destructive to her self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-image.

4 Ways to Tell if He is Lying About Cheating

Janine Driver of the Body Language Institute shares four fascinating ways to tell if a husband is cheating on his wife and lying about it.
1. Ways of talking can indicate that he’s lying. Wives know their husbands; if he changes how he normally talks or behaves, then he might be cheating or lying. If he doesn’t usually talk in a high pitch or swiftly, then he’s trying to hide something.
2. Specific statements are indications of lying about cheating. When a husband says, “I know you think I’m lying” – they’re saying I’m lying. When they say “You may not believe me, but I’m telling the truth” – then they’re telling the truth. Lying husbands actually tell the truth, cushioned in lies. (Note that this can’t be 100% accurate because if a man knows this, he’ll change the way he speaks, right?).
3. Nonverbal body language is a sign of cheating. Driver calls this the “belly button rule.” When we’re telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. When your husband is lying about cheating, he’ll turn away from you – and you know he’s cheating! If their belly button faces the door or exit, it’s because subconsciously they want to leave or escape. Also, a shoulder shrug should never accompany a definitive statement. Driver said to never believe verbal statements over nonverbal body language. Also – wrapping legs around leg of chair is a sign of restraint, of holding back, and not being honest. Leaning away from you is a sign of a cheating, lying husband because we lean away from things we want to avoid.
4. Emotional reactions to questions can be a sign of cheating and lying. If you confront your husband about your suspicion that he’s having an affair, and he gets angry, defensive, or overreacts emotionally, then it’s a sign that something’s up. Driver also mentioned that lying husbands tend to laugh nervously or make accusations towards their wives.
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